I'm 42 & 6 3 ,, now ,have I retired ? Or am I still in training ,,,,, Hmmm , today I'm a semi retired athelete, still swimming a mile a day etc, but not racing,,Solvent no mortgage anymore,,career ,,hmm feet on desk, I think,and since my long term patners decent into alcholism,a disturbing, for family and friends, decent .I've travelled the World accompanied by my ABC ,AA [American Born Chinese ,Asian American],side kick New York Cities answer to Michelle Yoeh[Crouching Tiger] at 5 9 and 43.I'm looking for someone closer to home now, she had the typical interests of the I women date ,,degree in humanities,,inner alchemy,healthy living and fitness,Arts and World travel ,.So if anybody else likes breathing deeply [controlled] at the spiritual /beautiful sights of the World, for example ,,cycling round the galleries and bistos of Paris,with a straw hat on ,snorkelling on Indonesian coral reefs , following the hotel trail of George Sand , Eating the raw fish platter from the lagoon in Venice and drinking Prosecco in the Veneto bars ,fresco hunting by scooter in Tuscany, the gardens and sushi of Japan, and the dances & rice terraces of Bali,etc, +++,,,shopping ,if so I might suit someone,,